人民日报人民论坛：涵养人格的魅力

万事淡定 · 发表于 2015-2-4 09:16

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　　人格魅力是什么？就是人的信仰、气质、品德、才智等汇聚而成的感召力量。心理学家称之为冬天里的火把，夏日里的清风；管理学者言其为一呼百应的号召力，凝心聚力的吸引力，潜移默化的感染力。对于从政为官者而言，它就是感人、服人、率人的软实力。

　　崇高的人格成就伟大的事业。在革命战争年代，工农群众文化不高，对马列原理知之不深，但为什么共产党人能“唤起工农千百万”？对此，小平同志曾一语道破：共产党人干事业，一靠真理的力量，二靠人格的力量。当年，面对众多佃农，彭湃毅然烧毁地契，抛却“鸦飞不过的田产”；面对反动派的屠刀，夏明翰舍身昭示“砍头不要紧，只要主义真”；方志敏掌管数百万革命经费，自己却身无分文……读懂了革命先烈的人格底蕴，才能真正理解他们带领群众革命的魅力所在、成功所能。

　　研究领导科学的学者得出一个公式：领导魅力=99%的个人影响力+1%的权力，极言人格作用的重要性。领导者的人格魅力，是一种超然于权力之上的影响力。它蕴于内而显于外，是外在与内在的一致、才智与情愫的融合、行为与修身的统一。一个充满人格魅力的领导者，言之足以服人、召之足以率人、行之足以示人、德之足以化人。考究一些优秀领导干部的人格魅力，个性或千差万别，但共性却多有可循——惟其平民情怀，故能赢得民心；惟其清正廉明，方能受到信赖；惟其心胸博大，才能凝心聚力。

　　人无贵贱之分，但人格有高下之别。高尚的人格能让权力者信而有威，卑劣的人格会使权力者“威”而无信。权力者失去公信力，纵使他吐真言、为善行，社会也会给予负面评价。当下，一些党员干部缺的不是文化水平，而是精神境界；浅的不是专业知识，而是道德修为；弱的不是工作能力，而是人格力量。有的人感叹官不聊生，抱怨群众工作难做，解决问题难成。究其症结，原因之一就是为官失去了人格底蕴。倘若讲信仰的丧失信仰，怎能信服群众？做“公仆”的热衷官威，怎能贴近群众？为官的不思作为，怎能激励群众？喊操守的自己缺德，怎能感召群众？领导干部若表里不一，患了“人格分裂症”，即便位高权重也难以服人率众。

　　播下一种人格，收获一种命运。党员干部能否收获人民感念、青史留名的灿烂人生，就看他是否播下了信仰坚定、品高行端、亲民为民的人格种子。

　　《人民日报》（ 2015年02月04日 04 版）

万事淡定 · 发表于 2015-2-4 09:18

播下一种人格，收获一种命运。党员干部能否收获人民感念、青史留名的灿烂人生，就看他是否播下了信仰坚定、品高行端、亲民为民的人格种子。

万事淡定 · 发表于 2015-2-4 09:41

研究领导科学的学者得出一个公式：领导魅力=99%的个人影响力+1%的权力，极言人格作用的重要性。领导者的人格魅力，是一种超然于权力之上的影响力。它蕴于内而显于外，是外在与内在的一致、才智与情愫的融合、行为与修身的统一。一个充满人格魅力的领导者，言之足以服人、召之足以率人、行之足以示人、德之足以化人。考究一些优秀领导干部的人格魅力，个性或千差万别，但共性却多有可循——惟其平民情怀，故能赢得民心；惟其清正廉明，方能受到信赖；惟其心胸博大，才能凝心聚力