活人不一定要别人理解你 心情随笔

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作者：飘泊游子
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活人不一定要别人理解你，其实，一个人要理解另一个人是有难度的，常言道：夫妻同床睡，人心隔肚皮。了解一个人都难，何况要真正理解一个人呢，想别人理解自己，这也是人之常情，人家不理解你，也是正常的，你不可能逼着人家来理解你，更不可能将自己的意志强加给别人。

人与人之间只有相互尊重下，才能得到理解，父子也好、夫妻也好、朋友同事也罢，都如此，光要别人尊重你理解你，你不尊重不理解别人，好事都让给你，那就不现实了，人都不傻，都会去想的。

我这些日子总在想一些杂乱的事，有时想得头都痛，现实与想法的距离总是拉得太远，有的是遥遥无期，于是，也就不知如何来表达自己的想法，就沉默地面对现实，过着得天度日的生活，想归想，日子还得过。

人都想有个好的生活，我也一样，想过上好日子，当回到生活的轨道时，又不得不去面对现实的残酷，别人不了解你，那是很自然的，别人不理解你，也是很正常的，自己活自己的人，自己走自己想走的路，因为只有自己才真正了解自己，风也好，雨也好，路在自己的脚下，自己走好就好。

活人要记住：靠天靠地不如靠自己，求爹求娘不如求自己，只有自己能改变自己，别人永远也无法真正改变自己。
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07世界杯

过好自己，不需要所有人的理解